So one of my friend recently met a person in some party and they exchanged their numbers, started talking to each other and the person asked her out…. She was bit confused initially because she was thinking perhaps it’s too early, so she came to me for some advice. I suggested her to meet so that she can make her final decision whether to think further for that person or not. So they have met, spend a full day together, went for breakfast, coffee, movie, lunch and dinner. Guess what after meeting that person she find out that she really like the person. Yes, I know it’s too soon for anybody to decide in just one meeting that whether the person is perfect for us or not. Although she started liking that person but she was confused whether to tell that person about it or not?, too many questions like, is she acting cheesy?, or is it too soon to tell that person about your feeling? or she doesn’t want to sound desperate……
So have you also been in this confusion where you like some person but confused of telling them?
Well I think you should have say it right away, here are the reasons why?
1. It will give you clarity:- So the question arises that why should we tell other person to tell how we feel about it? Well if you are not telling it through words your actions will definitely tell. But it won’t be able to give clarity to you that what other person think about you? So assume that you are liking somebody but the other person won’t feel the same for you? In that case you may end up hurting yourself. So its better to clear it and have one on one conversation prior. it will help you to decide things further. If the person is not feeling same for you then its of no use to continuously feel same for that person, because it won’t take you anywhere. On the second hand if the person really likes you too, you may end up starting a beautiful relationship.
2. You won’t end up looking desperate:- So yes, we are living in a social world and we all actually think a lot before doing anything about others. So this is one of the major reasons why people think they should not confess about their feeling at the first hand or too soon, that they might look desperate to other person. So here is the truth people, trust me confessing your feeling won’t make you desperate, but yes hiding your true feeling definitely makes you coward. So if you are confessing your feeling to somebody that shows that you have higher level of self respect towards yourself. You are one of those people who are very clear about things with yourself and others too. It shows how self aware are you for yourself. It helps to build up your courage because trust me sharing your feeling with someone is a real tough task and hearing and accepting there answer is another big task. So be brave enough to confess your feeling for specially 2 reasons. One because trust me its an awesome feeling to have this experience to confess about your feelings and second most importantly because you deserve to know an answer. You need to know your place in other person’s life.
3. Regret or No Regret:- So this is the most important one I guess. Imagine you never confessed your feeling to someone and later on you got to know from some person that the other person also felt the same for you. But what now? that time passed, that spark faded away and this might also happen that the other person moved on in their life and there is no turning back. Trust me confessing is much better than being in regret lifetime. Don’t think it’s too soon, Because you might not get another chance to say it.
By doing all these things you can actually make your life more easy and live happily.